Quickeners: A Podcast to Inspire Self-Care
Quickeners are inspirations. Quick ones. To help you have more fun, ease and vibrance in life. Quickeners podcast aims to inspire your self-care.
This podcast is an audio collection of things that I’ve noticed are keys to shift. They are consistent with the science of change but often embrace wisdom traditions and mystery.
In the first episode, I share a few stories of people I’ve worked with who inspire me, and some tips on how to get inspired.
I hope you enjoy!
Below is a summary of episodes. Listen away and let me know what you think!
Life is tough – and it’s moving fast. For me, it’s the quick and easy little changes that add up to self-care.
Inspiration for that change is everywhere. You just need to look – with an open mind and heart – at everyday people doing extraordinary things.
I’ve been filled with inspiration lately. I’m inspired by the people I’ve been encountering as an integrative lifestyle teacher and counselor. People that, despite the odds, despite the hard work involved, have made a change in their lives.
I’d like to tell you a couple of stories of inspiration to shift toward – better. This episode includes 3 stories, 2 things I notice that create inspiration, and easy practice to help you create an internal environment that can help you see inspiration and to inspire others.
Thanks for listening.
Episode 2: How Transformation Works
There is a science to change, and things we can do to support ourselves along the way. In this episode, I’ll talk about an aha I had when my science-packed brain ran into a spiritual transformation teacher.
I’ll tell you a (hopefully not) secret to transformation, and little things you can do to sustain the practice that will support your transformation – be it eating more healthfully, meditating or practicing self-care with love.
Episode 3: Maitri (Metta - Loving-kindness) Meditation
Mindset is everything. Yet, for most of us, a protective mindset dominates and keeps us from becoming the fullest expression of who we are. While that protective mindset has value – it can help keep us safe and help us learn how to create our own safety – it can also undermine happiness and interfere with our ability to manifest.
A simple practice to quickly shift away from an over-protective mindset is Maitri or loving-kindness Meditation.
Maitri is a Sanskrit word that means benevolence, loving-kindness, goodwill, an active interest in the well-being of others. Maitri (Metta) meditation is the 1st of the 4 sublime states of being in Tibetian tantric yoga.
In this episode we chant this Metta meditation together:
May I be happy;
May I be healthy;
May my heart be open;
and may I stand in the light of my own true self.
This is a modification of a Metta meditation that I learned from my beloved mentor and friend, Stephen Cope (Kavi).
May it help you open your heart, find happy well-being, and anchor yourself within.
Moving Grief with Courage: Special Episode
This episode focuses on what courage is and why we need it.
It was taped during stay-at-home for COVID-19, after nearly a month of national quarantine. We are all grieving what we’ve lost, and figuring out our way forward.
What a time!
I’ve included a simple, slow, gentle warrior breathing practice to help you through. Doing this practice, then the metta meditation practice is a great combo for what we are moving through now, or if you just need to summon your courage to keep going.
Episode 4: Not Your Fault - Now What?
In psychology there the idea that “it’s not your fault that you…”. We did not personally create many of the dysfunctional parts of our life. Many of our struggles are rooted in early events and our of our control.
But that’s not the end of the conversation of change. In yoga philosophy, not your fault is only part of (half of?) the conversation. The other part is – now what? Once you realize that you didn’t create these situations, one option is to take responsibility to clean it up anyway because it will likely make your life better to do so.
This dichotomy and the tension in the dichotomy is an aspect of life – it’s the dance of action & embodiment, of being & doing, of masculine & feminine, Shakti & Shiva. In yoga philosophy we need both – we need to accept that it’s not our fault, yet we have the capacity to shift, renew, embody our own experience.
In this episode I’ll tell stories and give examples, and then a 3-step process to navigate from doing to being.
Episode 5: Experiments in Simple
You have infinite possibilities when it comes to how to live your life. You can lead a good life, even a great life, in a number of ways. You can go with the flow, do what’s expected, and all can be well. That’s great to many people and it works out well. Or not.
If you choose to live an examined life, the idea of renunciation (or Tapas – simplicity or austerities in yoga philosophy) is something you’ll probably need to deal with. It’s natural to grow beyond or in a different direction than a group, organization, or practice. Things change. We humans can also get compulsive about almost anything. That’s where the sabbatical comes in.
Classical Yoga Therapy (Yoga Chikitsa in Sanskrit), is a three step process of 1. Tapas (simplicity or sabbatical), 2. Svadhyaya (self-study or learning what happens when you do the experiment), and 3. Ishvara Pranidhana (surrender – to the Universe, to God, or to what you learned. Acceptance).
In this episode I talk about Tapas – simplifying, and how that can set the stage for positive change. I end with a simple 3-step practice for Tapas.
Episode 6: It's All About Intention - Get clear on what & why
If we go through life without intention, we increase the likelihood of getting haphazard results. Knowing what we want, knowing what we’d like to bring into our lives just makes it more likely that we will. To me, intention is a thread that connects dharma (your sacred mission or truth – why you are here) with your core governing values (what’s most important to you). Yes they are all connected – together I think of them as a base that drives daily actions and decisions.
So, taking time to think about (and to write down) dharma, core values and intention is time well spent.
I’ll explain how to do it, and describe how for me it felt when my intention was not fully in alignment.
If you are a healer in your life (most are, I’d say), or if you are looking to live a considered life, working with intention is essential to your creating the healing in the world that you hope to.
Episode 7: Let It Go!
…It’s An Exhale
If you let go a little, you will have a little peace.
If you let go a lot, you will have a lot of peace.
– Ajahn Chah (Thai Buddhist Monk of the Thai Forest Tradition)
Sounds good, but how does it really happen? Letting go is a practice, and we can study our own exhale (23,000 opportunities daily!) to learn how to do it. This episode contains personal stories (letting go is a challenge!) a meditation on exhaling with the aim of letting go, and a 3-step practice to dive deeper into letting a particular something you’ve been hanging on to go while learning and evolving.
Horrible things happen in this life – often, life is unbearably cruel and unfair. Holding on – to pain, to injustice – gives us a compelling sense of identity. So, letting go is about releasing that part of our identity and re-imagining who we are. It’s a great process but can be challenging.
Letting go and exhaling creates space; in your body and in your mind. Once you release, you can fill that space with things that serve you well now.
The mantra I mention in this segment is: Om Nama Shivaya.