How to Do Abhyanga: Warm Oil Massage for Stress Relief and Better Sleep

How to Do Abhyanga: Warm Oil Massage for Stress Relief and Better Sleep

Here in the Northeast, we get dry and chilly in winter. The ancient Ayurvedic practice of abhyanga, a massage using specific warm oils, can be done by an Ayurvedic professional, or you can do it yourself as a daily practice. Abhyanga has transformed the quality of my winter skin and made me feel calmer and more balanced.

This deeply nourishing ritual supports your body, mind and spirit. It promotes relaxation, detoxification, and metabolic health. Whether you’re new to Ayurveda or a seasoned practitioner, incorporating abhyanga into your daily routine can profoundly affect your overall well-being.

Just What is Abhyanga?

Abhyanga is a traditional Ayurvedic practice that involves massaging your entire body with warm oil. The word “abhyanga” translates to “oil massage” in Sanskrit (an ancient language). This holistic practice is rooted in the Indian system of medicine, Ayurveda, which emphasizes balancing the body’s constitutional energies (doshas) to promote health and prevent disease.

The oils used in abhyanga are typically infused with herbs tailored to an individual’s dosha type (Vata, Pitta, or Kapha). Sesame oil, coconut oil, and mustard oil are common base oils, each offering unique therapeutic benefits. The practice is believed to improve circulation, enhance lymphatic drainage, and rejuvenate the body.

Here’s what my abhyanga set-up looks like: 

pyrex bowl on a coffe cup heater, with 2 oils next to it, and oil warming in the cup

How to Perform Abhyanga

Doing abhyanga at home is simple and can take just 10-20 minutes (longer for your oil to soak in, which is ideal). 

Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you get started:

  1. Choose Your Oil

    Select an oil that suits your dosha. For Vata calming, warming sesame oil is ideal. Pitta balancing benefits from cooling coconut oil, while Kapha calming thrive with lighter oils like mustard or safflower. If in doubt, it’s hard to go wrong with Vata pasification (which tends to be calming). I use jojoba oil, which suits all doshas, and one infused with rose.

  2. Warm the Oil

    Heat the oil slightly to enhance absorption. Place a small bowl of oil in a larger bowl of hot water to gently warm it. Or, use a plug-in coffee cup heater and a small Pyrex bowl to warm the oil for about 10 minutes. 

  3. Create a Calming Environment

    Find a warm, quiet space where you won’t be disturbed. Light candles, play calming music, or use essential oils to create a serene atmosphere. If you are in the bathroom, take a moment to look in the mirror and say to yourself – I am nourishing my nervous system with loving self-care. 

  4. Begin with Your Head

    Begin by massaging the oil into your scalp, beginning with the crown of your head, with circular motions. This stimulates blood flow and nourishes your hair follicles. Massage your outer ear, and ear lobes, gently massage your forehead, temples, jaw, chin and neck. 

  5. Move to Your Body

    Use long strokes on your limbs and circular motions on the joints. Apply light pressure on sensitive areas like your abdomen and chest and more vigorous pressure on thicker-skinned areas like the soles of your feet and palms. Do this massage lovingly, paying attention to your body and sending it good wishes as you massage.

  6. Focus on Your Marma Points     

    Marma points are sensitive energy points in the body (similar to pressure points in acupressure) in the Ayurvedic energy system. Gentle stimulation of these points can help release blocked energy and promote healing.

  7. Give the Oil Time to Soak in

    After completing the massage, allow the oil to sit on your skin for 15-20 minutes. I massage myself naked, then put on old clothes to shuffle around in for a while while my oil soaks and softens me. This allows the herbs and nutrients to penetrate deeply.

  8. Take a Nice Warm Bath or Shower

    Rinse off excess oil with a warm bath or shower. Use a gentle cleanser to avoid stripping your skin of its natural oils.

  9. Consistency is Key

    When I am under stress or need to perform, I try to do abhyanga daily – it keeps me relaxed and energized. For the greatest benefits, perform abhyanga daily or at least three times a week. Ultimately, whenever you can do it is great!

What does the science of Abhyanga say?

From a Western clinical perspective, there are not yet large randomized controlled trials (RCT) for using abhyanga. RCTs are the gold standard when comparing treatments to see what works best for what.

There are however, several case studies and trials, including a pilot study funded by the National Institutes of Health (4). Some of the studies use abhyanga within a mixed Ayurvedic regimen that suggest substantial benefit for inflammatory and stress-related conditions (1-3). The NIH funded pilot (n=20) also suggested substantial stress relieving benefit. It is well established that massage has physiologic and psychological benefits, and that the aroma of warm oils has an impact.

Abhyanga is an extremely low-risk intervention – if you have sensitive skin, don’t do full abhyanga until you’ve tested the oil on a small patch of skin. Be aware of just warming the oil so that it’s pleasant and comfortable. 

The bottom line is how it feels and how it benefits you in your life as a self-care practice. If you have an inflammatory or stress-related condition or are at risk for one, if this appeals to you, check it out!

How Abhyanga Manages Stress & Balances

One of the greatest benefits of abhyanga is its ability to help manage stress. Chronic stress is almost universal today, is associated with health problems, including anxiety, depression, insomnia, and metabolic disorders, and makes almost every health issue worse.

Here’s how abhyanga can help:

  • Activates the Parasympathetic Nervous System: The gentle, rhythmic strokes of abhyanga activate the parasympathetic nervous system, also known as the “rest and digest” side of the autonomic nervous system. This helps calm your mind and body, reducing the physiological effects of stress.
  • Improves Circulation: This massage enhances movement and blood flow, promotes the delivery of oxygen and nutrients to tissues while helping to remove toxins. Improved circulation also supports lymphatic drainage, helping the body eliminate waste more efficiently.
  • Balances the Doshas: According to Ayurveda, stress can cause imbalances in the doshas, particularly Vata. Abhyanga helps ground and stabilize Vata energy, reducing feelings of anxiety and restlessness.
  • Promotes Better Sleep: Lack of quality sleep is an epidemic in our busy culture. By calming the nervous system and relaxing the body, abhyanga can improve your quality of sleep. Restful sleep is essential for managing stress and maintaining metabolic health.
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How Abhyanga Benefits Metabolism

Metabolic health refers to the body’s ability to create and process energy – to maintain optimal levels of blood sugar, cholesterol, and blood pressure. Poor metabolic health can lead to conditions like obesity, diabetes, and cardiovascular disease, thyroid imbalance and even some cancers.

Abhyanga offers several potential benefits for those struggling with metabolic issues:

  • Reduces Inflammation: Chronic inflammation is a key contributor to metabolic disorders. The herbs and oils used in abhyanga have anti-inflammatory properties that can help reduce systemic (body-wide) inflammation. In one small study using abhyanga within a combination Ayurvedic treatment, nearly 65% of a group with osteoarthritis reported significant improvement, and an additional 23% reported moderate symptom improvement.(1)
  • Supports Detoxification: Massage can stimulate the lymphatic system, supporting the removal of toxins. A well-functioning lymphatic system is essential for maintaining metabolic balance.
  • Enhances Insulin Sensitivity: Regular abhyanga can improve insulin sensitivity by reducing stress and promoting circulation. This is crucial for anyone with metabolic issues, including individuals with insulin resistance or type 2 diabetes.
  • Improves Digestion: According to Ayurveda, abhyanga supports agni (digestive fire), which is essential for breaking down food and absorbing nutrients efficiently. Healthy digestion is a cornerstone of metabolic health.

The Mind-Body Connection:

Abhyanga & Emotional Well-being

Beyond its physical benefits, abhyanga can have profound effects on your emotional well-being. The act of self-massage is inherently nurturing and fosters a deep sense of self-love and compassion. It encourages mindfulness and helps you connect with your body, promoting a positive self-image.

Additionally, abhyanga can help release stored emotions and trauma held within the body. The gentle touch and mindful practice create a safe space for emotional healing and self-discovery.

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Incorporating Abhyanga into Your Modern Life

While abhyanga is traditionally performed daily, it can be adapted to suit modern lifestyles. Here are a few tips:

  • Start Small: If daily practice feels overwhelming, start with once or twice a week.
  • Focus on Key Areas: If time is limited, focus on key areas like the head, feet, and hands.
  • Make it a Ritual: Treat abhyanga as a sacred time for self-care. Set aside time each week to unwind and reconnect with yourself.Abhyanga is a powerful nurturing Ayurvedic practice that offers a myriad of benefits for physical and emotional well-being. By incorporating this self-massage ritual into your routine, you can help manage your stress, promote balanced health, and support your metabolic health journey. Whether you’re looking to reduce anxiety, improve sleep, or enhance your overall vitality, abhyanga provides a holistic approach to achieving wellness from the inside out.

    Have you embraced this ancient wisdom and made abhyanga a part of your self-care toolkit for a healthier, more balanced life? I want to know!

    Please share a comment!

Sources

(1) Clinical study on Sandhigata Vata w.s.r. to Osteoarthritis and its management by Panchatikta Ghrita Guggulu. Akhtar B, Mahto R, Dave A et al. (2010) Ayujournal, 31(1). 

(2) Role of Shirodhara and Abhyanga on serum cortisol in Anxiety – A case report. Sharma et al.(2025).J Ayurveda and Integ Med 16 100948

(3)Ayurveda management of Major Depressive Disorder: A case study. Tubaki B, Chandake S, SarhyalA (2021)Journal of Ayurveda and Integrative Medicine 12, 378e-383.

(4) Pilot study investigating the effects of Ayurvedic Abhyanga massage on subjective stress experience. Basler AJ. Altern Complement Med. 2011 May;17(5):435-40. doi: 10.1089/acm.2010.0281. Epub 2011 May 13. PMID: 21568717.

 

Let's Get Coherent

Let's Get Coherent

There’s been talk in the integrative wellness world about coherence, so here’s a bit about that. It’s about vibration and the waves created therein. Some scientists say that all communication comes down to vibrational waves – light, sound, movement – how animals and plants, the cells within them and much of the world itself communicates.
Let’s talk about waves and how to begin to discuss them. A good place to start is with few definitions.
Wavelength: A wavelength is the distance between two similar points of two waves – crest (top) to crest or trough (bottom) to bottom, for example.
Frequency: The number of waves produced per second. Speaks to speed and length.
Amplitude: Half the distance from peak to trough. It can also be thought of the height of a wave from the rest position (the inflection point in the middle where the wave is not moving) to the peak. How big it is.
Wave Speed: How fast it is moving (in meters per second).
Period: The time it takes to pass a point, in seconds. Speed.
Some of these sound close in definition and they are, but I am going to leave it there for the time being. If you are curious, do a little more research. Thanks.
So, coherence involves two waves meeting – they can meet in a coherent way (speed and frequency are similar enough to become in sync) and increase amplitude, or incoherently and decrease amplitude. When waves are incoherent, the waves can actually cancel each other out, or go a little haywire and splat (not a technical term but I hope you get the visual – plop!).
The metaphysical idea is that we are each born with a certain frequency (my teacher says we each come in on a different color of the rainbow of light). Our wavelength and frequency determine, to a great extent, to whom and what we resonate. What’s coherent to us, the thinking goes, is what gives us a boost and makes us feel stronger. Philosophers in this area go on and on, spiraling deeper and deeper in the dance of energy.
The human heart – that strongest muscle in our body –  is an oscillator – it creates electical waves, and some believe it creates the human energy field. Get where I’m going?

What Might It Mean?

  • When we do grounding practices in yoga we become more coherent with the earth.
  • When we show appreciation for a plant, we are becoming more coherent with the plant.
  • When we seek to understand what another person is saying, or feeling – when we empathize, we are becoming more coherent with that person.
  • When we cultivate gratitude we become more coherent with our own life and life itself.

Coherence is a basis for communication – it is a connection. My teacher says it is a communion.
I say it is a way of understanding energy. Of understanding our subtle bodies (meaning our energy bodies, our emotional bodies, the aspects of us we can’t see and have difficulty measuring) and the world around us. The idea that cultivating coherence leads to and is akin to following our bliss. These ideas are consistent with both yoga and with positive psychology and with plant spirit healing. They are energy-competent lenses for experiencing life.

Is This for Real?

Is there Western clinical science that might back this up? From what I’ve see thus far, there are many interesting possibilities, but I have yet to see a really well conducted study that proves this all happens in the way I’ve presented. I want one, believe me – intuitively it makes perfect sense. But the science, well, it’s so young it doesn’t yet speak.
And yet. It’s worthwhile to study energy. Knowing how to operate your own energy field, how to ground yourself, how to expand when it’s helpful – these are clearly helpful skills in this destabilized and chaotic time. So, let’s keep studying. With a clear eye and an open heart.
Through my programs this year – in Costa Rica, the March weekend (Every Bite Is Divine) , my week with Jeremy and the program I’ll lead in July (Subtle Body Nourishment) at Kripalu, I will be diving into the how of coherence – there are practices that can help you live more from, and funnel life through – this magnificent organ at the center of our being – our heart.

Plant Alchemy: Energy Hygiene

Plant Alchemy: Energy Hygiene

Plan Alchemy Energy HygieneUpdated:  5/16/2023

How many of you, when you look at how I describe myself, say to yourself “What the heck is plant alchemy?” Come on now, I know you do.

What Are Alchemists?

Alchemists were the scientists of the 16th century. They were a fascinating lot – a little scientific, a little more than a little out there. While they were the doctors and healers of their time, their obsession was transformation, most famously, the preoccupation of how to turn lead into gold.

Modern Day Alchemy

Alchemy today embraces the science, art, and spirit of healing. So, as a plant alchemist, I stay up on the science of plant-based diets for health, and the advantages and disadvantages of eating in this way. I also embrace the art of plants – of growing, cooking and living with plants, learning from them as they are our ancestors. I love herbalists and Ayurveda practitioners, as well as clinical nutritionists and naturopaths. Then, there’s the energetics of plants and nature. I’ve been diving into how we can use plants as an entree into ecstatic healing, and the many medicinal plants, including the astounding array of psychoactive plants as well as the much less dramatic, ones available to us for health and healing.

So, that’s plant alchemy, and that’s what I do – the science art and spirit of green beings. It’s very very good work if you can get it.

Energy Hygiene Practices

Within plant alchemy, energy hygiene has made a big difference in my life and I teach it all the time. For years now I’ve been doing a daily smudge with Paulo santo (a wood from South America) and I’ve fallen in love with the ritual and of course, I love love that beautiful smell. The smudge, wherein I light a piece of wood and scrub my energy body, is the greeting of the day “Hello tree, good morning stones, hi birds.” I then move my spine and undertake some fiery belly pranayama practice – stomach pumping, fire breath, a “take the whole thing and lift and throw it over your shoulder root lock” (or subtle version – a fine thread lifting version) – depending on my needs and the season. I give thanks, I make blessings, then move on with my day. In the shower, I have flowers or plant matter whenever possible, and as I shower I intentionally clear my energy field. Often, I will head outside to stomp around barefoot, grounding. All these practices – the daily fare of clearing and charging my energy field – are energy hygiene practices.

We modern humans can learn how to live our days in harmony with the earth and with nature. The earth and nature are changing, destabilized, and we feel it at our very cores. We can learn how to navigate that – how to ground ourselves when we need it, how to charge ourselves when we need it – by learning the skill of energy hygiene.

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